ARIES
Find out for yourself.
Aries are always politically correct, so if you want to learn what they really think, you’ll have to wait until the crowd disperses. They won’t criticize anyone or express an unpopular opinion freely, and you’ll never get to know an Aries if you only hear their authoritative talking points. They are very complex and loyal people, and they won’t open up to you until they feel a special bond between the two of you.
TAURUS
Prove you have taste.
Taurus will never talk shop with someone who doesn’t know how to trade, and that includes talking about themselves. You must demonstrate that you have more than one-third of the confidence in the area of interest. Prove that you have done your homework. Show your ability to design and express your ideas. There is nothing they hate more than the laziness of repeating a sound without understanding the context. Let them hear your hot take.
GEMINI
Patience.
Geminis are busy; there is no rotation. If you really want to get to know them, a few days of texting won’t cut it. They will be at work, with friends and family, grinding away at their side. Just because you’re new in their life doesn’t mean you’re entitled to constant attention. Make plans ahead of time, and keep clearing one conversation at a time. Enter the job.
CANCER
Turn off listening.
Do you remember the last trippy sci-fi/murder/mystery show you watched? How are all the little details connected to the main plot line and reveal? That’s how you explain that Cancer is open. You have to pay close attention to the breadcrumbs they feed you, and there are no takedowns or tidbits to be had. Keeping up is your only option. Connect the dots and ask your own questions. They will reward your devotion by satisfying your curiosity.
LEO
Give them a microphone.
All jokes aside, Leos just need an audience. Sure, they might have a little stage fright, at first, but what they really want is to know that someone wants to listen to them. It’s what they’ve been dreaming about and hoping for since they were young. Give them a lift, and let them know how excited you are to hear what they have to say. They’ll give you an encore without making you beg.
VIRGO
They mocked.
I do not want to recommend negging in any way, but you must show Virgo that you are not afraid of them, otherwise, you will never separate yourself from their followers. They have a natural intelligence that shows in the tough love that people follow around the corner. If you can poke a little fun at the self-importance you give them, you’ll break through their shell and separate the person from the myth.
LIBRA
Suggest a topic for discussion.
Libra won’t go deep with you talking about anything basic. Taylor Swift, sports, and the weather have no place in the conversation. It is your job to demonstrate that you are capable of complex thinking, emotional intelligence, and critical thinking. Mention a game, and Libra is ready to sit across the table from you and play. They won’t go easy on you once they realize you’re in their weight class.
SCORPIO
Honesty.
It will take time and consistency on your part, but in order to get a Scorpio to open up, you must, must, show them that you are telling the truth. They have a deep understanding of emotion, which makes manipulative methods more apparent to them. They know how others take advantage of them by showing false interest. So just make your word right. Their trust must be earned before you can enjoy it.
SAGITTARIUS
Get them to show you.
Sagittarius likes to wander to the corner of a party with someone they see as shy or quiet and get to know everything about them. It’s their turn to play interview host. But the best thing about them is that once you have revealed your soul, they will never leave you hanging there alone. For every secret you tell, they will spill something about themselves to make you feel better.
CAPRICORN
Show some sincerity.
Capricorns need to see that you are not the office gossip. Keep what’s said between you in confidence, and don’t run away from talking about it right after it gives you anything sweet. They know that news travels fast in small circles and they don’t believe in endless trash talking, no matter how frustrated they are. It’s not a good look for anyone, and they’re proud to rise above something small.
AQUARIUS
Listen to their speeches.
It is natural, to want to know everything about Aquarius. They are interesting people. But the way you crack that nut is to let them do their thing. They are always working on a project, or for a reason, and you just need to listen to what they want to talk about. There is always a disconnect between what they do and who they are in their mind. You just need to follow the thread.
PISCES
Raise their dream.
The only way to get to know a Pisces is to pay close attention. Show that you can tell they’re deep in conversation while staring out the window, and ask them what they think because it’s obviously not the environment or the weather. They keep their opinions to themselves because they think that most of the world is not connected to the scope of what their mental world has to offer. All you have to do is buy a ticket.