She’s an alpha, a born dictator, the leader of the pack, and I’m going to go out on a limb here to predict that she’ll be the first female president – in fact, guarantee it! When you walk into a room, people move out of the way. When you tell them to jump, they ask, “How high?”—while they are in space! If people know what’s good for them, they’ll just get out of your way. But most people don’t know what’s good for them, that’s why you have to step on them while climbing to the top.
You can read people like a cheap paperback novel. You call the shots and choose the spots. If your team gets lost in the woods, you’re the one to get them out. People are drawn to you because of your beauty, your beauty, and the wise-beyond-your-years look in your eyes. I don’t often say this, but I would have no problems taking orders from you.
It’s not exactly like you search lead, that you be to. After all, this is a country full of idiots! It feels like everyone around you is always going slow, so you’ll move to the head of the crowd and clear an open path for yourself. And people take the fact that you’re dripping with confidence, so, you don’t even have to get them out of the way. You even have a delicious way to detoxify. If you ever want to be a millionaire, be a dominatrix.
You don’t like being told what to do, but you’re not such a stubborn rebel that you won’t ignore good advice or show an attitude from someone who can help you move forward in life. You know how to use others—both their strengths and weaknesses—to get what you want. But since you know exactly what you want while many others are clueless, you naturally maintain a leadership position sooner or later.
Whether you are a leader or a follower depends on where the other person stands in the hierarchy compared to you. You take orders from everyone older than you and give orders to everyone younger than you. He follows every rich person and looks down on every poor person. He listens to the good and gives orders to the bad. You worship strength and mock weakness. In short, you take your cues based on whether the other person is a natural leader or a born follower.
You can go either way. You don’t mind giving orders or taking orders. If the choice is “lead, follow, or get out of the way,” you would prefer to get out of the way. But as a general rule, you’ll bow down to someone who can do you a favor or advance you in life, while you’ll instantly rebel against any loser who wants to manipulate you just to be the guy.
You will carry water to those who are stronger than you until you start to get tired, then you will carry water to someone who is weaker than you. You will take orders from the boss as long as the boss is polite and clean, but you will not ignore the orders if the boss is mean. If you like them, feel free to follow them. But if you hate them, you will find a way to banish them from their lives forever.
You will follow, but only if the person is worth following. You will lead, but only if no one else is willing or able to do it. You are very loyal to your friends and loved ones. If it’s good in the group, he will obey. But if it’s not right for the team, you’ll take over and lead your team to the promised land.
You’ll lead in rare situations—like, oh, say you’re in the passenger seat and the driver falls asleep and you’re headed for a big rock…if that’s the case, sure, you’ll take the wheel and lead. But you would have preferred if the driver had just stayed awake. He prefers to be a passenger than a driver. It’s easy.
Why would you want to lead others? Don’t people realize what a huge burden that would be? I mean, if you have servants, that means you have to feed them and clothe them and make sure they’re healthy—and who needs all that pressure? As you can see, being a leader would be difficult. That’s why most of the time, he will eat others just to keep the peace.
You are an employee, never an employer. A member of the choir, but never alone. You are always in the audience, but never on the stage. You can’t even put together your own action, so you won’t be the leader of others any time soon. But that’s okay—you’d rather watch the movie than direct it, anyway. It’s not that stressful.
He is perfectly content to be a doormat, submissive, submissive, subservient, considerate, compliant, defiant, and a bunch of other words I just looked up in the thesaurus. At a four-way stop sign, you wait until all other vehicles have passed first. At the office birthday party, you are always the last person to take a piece of the cake. Instead of being a dictator, you are more likely to make decisions—for a dictator.