April
Unwavering integrity.
The god of war’s partner needs to show fighting qualities. To keep it long, sometimes you have to be willing to take orders without questioning the reasons behind them. Someone born in April needs someone who is willing to make an ethical mistake before they leave their significant other to take the plunge on their own. It’s the Bonnie and Clyde, “down together” mentality. There will be parts of the relationship that are a struggle, requiring patience and dedication to see the chess-like strategy behind the series of battles. At some point, it just takes faith that both of you will come out ahead in time. Foresight is to see that today’s sacrifices will bring tomorrow’s victory.
May
Timelessness.
A person born in May needs someone who will always be their perfect match. Like the timeless Cartier tank watch. A person and a relationship that will age gracefully, that will matter with aging. It’s not a sign of just slipping into whatever’s fashionable one season, then ditching it if it clashes with the next. They have an eye for what is right for them, what is a good investment, and what will allow them to present the best version of themselves for years to come. So a person born in May will figuratively “save” for the right relationship. They know that a decades-long love story is built in an instant. The bond they want cannot be obtained with one swipe. They will hire someone who will grow up next to them.
June
Stability.
June natives need to see that you can weather any storm. They want someone who can take the heat, stand up to the wearer, and provide the support they need, even under pressure. They have seen other people come and go, those who cannot keep up with their busy schedules and the stress that comes with it. A person born in June is a perfectionist, a self-actualizer, and does not need a partner to feel complete. So their significant others need to be protected in the same way, and trust themselves enough to have someone who knows who they are. They are the type that really need to be loved at their best and worst. They will not enter into a lifetime commitment otherwise.
July
The principle of not holding grudges.
People born in July need someone who can solve a problem after a heated argument. Someone who doesn’t keep score, who won’t count who does the dishes every night to face your partner in line. They just need someone who knows the importance of agreement, the words “I’m sorry”. A person who is determined to always remember his partner’s personality as well as his own. It’s not about playing the endless blame game. Those born in July need someone who will see problems as something to be shared, something to be solved together. And when reconciliation is done, that war cannot be ruled out of the way. There is no double risk in love.
August
Evolution.
People born in August are always making friends, so they need a partner with an open mind and heart. They can’t have someone who is too locked into any one routine, someone who has had the same friends and done the same things since high school. August’s secret dream is to be cool elderly neighbors in an apartment or block one day. A couple who can connect with younger generations because of their enthusiastic and extroverted nature. So their partner cannot be afraid of change or growth. They need someone who wakes up every morning, ready to embrace every opportunity life throws at them, whether it’s trying new things or meeting new people. There’s nothing like a dog that can’t learn a new trick.
September
Unconditional love.
Someone born in September needs you to love them in good and bad ways. Someone to love when life gets messy and they just can’t get everything colored and labeled fast enough. They need someone who will look at them with pure love when their anger is over. Someone who just understands how it works without a user manual. Because unless someone sees all the lovable motives behind the recession, you don’t deserve someone born in September who is at his best. When they throw a birthday present or suddenly rearrange your wardrobe. When they create multiple Google Maps on your first vacation together or stay up all night researching your mysterious illness. They just need someone to see them and love the big picture.
October
Growing up.
Those with October birthdays need someone who isn’t afraid to take on more. To learn new knowledge, develop skills, continuously explore, and never stop reaching their full potential. Because they represent balance and balance, they see life as a series of choices. What will enrich your lives the most as a couple? What do you both need to work on to make things go smoothly? What do you both need to do to get to that next stage in your lives or careers? They know that planning is about deciding, about evaluating available options and making a rational decision, taking certain paths while leaving others behind. The partner you will grow with over the years is the partner who is there to go through that process as a team.
November
An effort.
November natives cannot tolerate being taken for granted and cannot commit to a lazy partner. They expect to have sex long after you both retire, whether it’s medically necessary or not. It’s all about being together. Everyone needs time to relax, even if you share a home and life with your partner. But a person born in November needs someone to take their attention away from the television when asked. Someone to help decide what to eat every night. Someone who knows that date nights are for a lifetime, not just the first six months of dating. They need scheduled quality time without sharing a bed and bathroom. Conversation, physical touch, and activities designed to bring you closer. It doesn’t need a crazy price tag as long as they see it from the heart.
December
Enthusiasm.
The kind that get a bad rap for needing to sacrifice too much, really just want to see their partner’s eyes light up. And while traveling is one of their favorite ways to unleash that inner child’s fear, what they want in a relationship may be a lot simpler. It doesn’t matter the job or the event, as long as you can show them that you are invested in spending time with them. Cooking new food together, trying a new restaurant, taking a class. They just want to know that you enjoy being with them just the way they are. Their biggest fear is a normal life, but they know that can only happen if you both stop expressing and pursuing the things you want together. In the end, it’s about not giving up on your happiness.
January
Partnership.
A person born in January is looking for someone to fold the laundry with. Someone to make a monthly budget with and follow through with until you can afford the splurge you decided to save for together. They just want someone who is willing and able to make plans because they find their happiness in anticipation and fulfillment. And when they can share this with another person, they feel more responsible. They are okay with taking on certain roles based on your strengths but they don’t want to feel like you think they are going to do too much work without deciding together. They want the responsibilities to be balanced so that your success feels like it really belongs to both of you.
February
Kindness.
A person born in February wants to be with someone who speaks positive things rather than negative things. Who takes the best from people before the worst? Who hasn’t completely lost faith in humanity, no matter how bleak current events become? They are a breed that gives back to their communities, and that means they don’t shy away from those less fortunate than themselves. Our partner needs to be as optimistic as he is that the world around us can be improved for the better, especially through personal actions. Anyone who is bullied too much will drag them down, and they need someone who knows how to please others instead.
March
Encouragement.
A person born in March needs someone who is not afraid to follow them down the rabbit hole, and I mean many, every day. They cannot go this deep in thought alongside a partner who will never leave the shallow end. Their partners need to be able to deal with uncomfortable ideas and consider bleak, scary, or bad possibilities because those born in March accept all the good and bad around them and allow their imagination to multiply endlessly. They live in a way that touches reality and all possibilities at the same time. So they need a partner who can plan any disaster but also be optimistic at the same time. Being a dreamer means that you need to be open to dreams and nightmares, with an equally open mind.
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