You sign up (a free tier is available), create a companion by customizing features and appearance, and jump into the conversation.
The Ourdream AI dialog flows based on your selections and memory history. When you sign up, you open media-generating photos and short videos of your friend based on the context of the conversation or a personalized message.
The interface is straightforward: choose, discuss, act. Just remember premium features require DreamCoins or subscription upgrade.
How to make an AI Girlfriend with Ourdream AI?
Here is a practical, step-by-step guide to creating an AI girlfriend in 6 steps shown in screenshots. I’ll walk you through all the controls you can see, as well as tips for getting consistent, great-looking results. Let’s go!
1) Style – choose presentation and art style
Tabs at the top: Female / Male / Trans. Choose the character’s gender first – this sets the default face, voice, and body preset.
Panels:
- The real one vs The anime: Select the appearance of the generated images.
- The real one provides photoreal images.
- The anime provides stylized illustrations.
Tips
- Decide final use (pictures vs manga style cards) before moving on; changing later may reset some settings.
2) Set nationality, age, skin tone
Nationality Grid: Asian, Black, White, Latina, Arab, Indian, Elf, Alien, Demon, plus a Premium → Custom tile.
A single selection moves the facial features and skin palettes to that category.
Age selector: Stepper with numbers (eg, 22, 23, 24, 25). Keep it 18+.
Symptoms of Skin Tone: From lightest to darkest, with a Tan preset. Click the swatch to apply immediately.
Tips
- When planning a sun-kissed look, choose a base tone first, then refine to Tan.
- Fantasy types (Elf/Alien/Demon) can later be combined with hair and eye colors for cohesive themes.
3) Face – eye color, hair color, hair style
Eye Color Line: Click on the color swatches (eg, blue, green, hazel, gray). Active displays the label (like Blue).
Hair Color Line: Natural and dyed selection (black/brown/blonde/red and bright green, blue, purple, pink, white/grey). It’s like a pill Blonde shows the current selection.
Hair Style Grid:
- Braided, Long, Kinky, Ponytail, Short, Bun, Buns (double buns), Wavy, Pixie
- Premium → Custom for more specific requests.
A pink check mark highlights an active card.
Tips
- A pair dyed hair with similar eye features (eg, blue eyes + purple hair) if you’re going for a stylized vibe.
- For the “girl next door” look, keep the hair natural and apply Bangs or Wavy.
4) Body – body type, chest size, hip size
Body Type: Slim, Athletic, Voluptuous, Curvy, Muscular.
Breast Size: Flat, Small, Medium, Large, XL.
Hip Size: Small, Skinny, Athletic, Medium, Large.
The selection is a quick preview of the sample tiles.
Tips
- Select Body Type first; and adjust the proportions so that everything feels balanced.
- Athletic goes well with it Athletic the size of the hips for the corresponding silhouette.
5) Details – name, voice, personality and advanced fields
Character name: Free text (eg. Elizabeth Vixen). It ended up being different; it is shown on the profile card later.
Personal Details (clickable cards):
- A word (eg The Sororitylater you will see Coach). Includes ▶︎ sample play icon.
- Personality (eg Flirty). It sets the style of the conversation.
- Work (eg The Stripper in your example – choose something that fits your story).
- The relationship (eg Fling). It frames how the AI interacts with the user.
- For recreation again A fetish (if you like). Leave unset if you don’t want niche behavior; you can refine it later.
Advanced Details (accordion)
- Enable AI Autocomplete (toggle): Let the system fill in the blanks based on what you set.
- Community description: A short bio others may see.
Example: “A playful fitness model who streams sunrise yoga and loves a sarcastic sneer.” - Custom Package Details: Free symbols (height, spots, tattoos, piercings).
- Custom Face Details: Eye shape, spots, dimples, beauty marks, makeup style.
- Greetings: The first message the actor sends.
Example: “Hey stranger, catch you staring across the hall again? ☺️” - Condition: Starting a context/story.
Example: “He’s your new neighbor; you met in the boarding area after the gym session.” - Additional Personal Information: Quirks, limitations, comic style.
Example: “A dry mind, likes to be teased, hates small talk, sets clear rules for consent.” - Additional Details: Anything that doesn’t fit elsewhere (likes, dislikes, goals).
- Tags: Add searchable tags (eg yandere, the promoter, neighbor).
Tips
- Use it Greeting + Status to direct i first discuss.
- If you give power AutocompleteReview your add-ons for tone and security before finalizing.
6) Image – final preview & quick editing
You will see a profile card left once edit the panels on the right.
Left card:
- A great portrait with refresh/refresh button (circular arrows) to redraw the image without losing the settings.
- The character name again years of age under the image (eg Elizabeth Vixen, 29).
- Short bio line (eg, “Your neighborhood social media influencer”).
- A pencil icon allows you to rename or edit a tagline in place.
Right panel – two tabs:
- Appearance
- A word (and preview ▶︎)
- Hair Style
- Body Type
- Ethnicity
- Breast Size
- Hip Size
- Eye Color (radio dot indicates operation)
- Hair Color
- Skin Tone
- Custom Body Details / Custom Face Details (pencil icons for editing those advanced areas as well)
- Personality
- It includes mirrors of personality cards (Voice, Personality, Relationship, etc.) so you can adjust the behavior without going back a step.
What you need to do here
- Click renew until the image matches your mental image.
- use the Appearance Small adjustment controls (eg switch Wavy → It’s long hair).
- Jump to Personality to intensify the vibe (eg, change Flirty → A playful tease).
- Reorganize I greet you if you change the backstory.
Pro setup tips
- Consistency first: Lock it Style, Ethnicityagain Skin Tone before doing hair/eyes; it ends up providing consistency.
- Name + Tags: Make them self-explanatory so you can find the character later.
- Limitations: In Additional Personal Informationset comfort levels and red lines (consent, no illegal topics, polite language).
- Voice preview: Always hit ▶︎ to make sure the voice sounds like a person (eg, the confident “Coach” versus the bubbly “Sorority”).
- Rebuild wisely: Use the refresh button after minor tweaks to match the look you want.
To solve the problem
- The result is visible after the big change: Go back one step (eg, from Image → Face) and change the setting to off/on; then refresh.
- The most common answers: Fill it up I greet you, The situationagain Additional Personal Information with 2–4 short, straight lines instead of one long paragraph.
- Contrasting colors: Medium (brown/dark) hair with a lighter eye color usually reads cleaner than lighter hair + light eyes.
It ends
Once you’re happy with the photo and profile card in step 6, save/confirm (use the Save/Create app button if available) and start chatting. You can always come back to A photo screen to reproduce a new image or to Appearance/Personality fixing the vibe—without rebuilding from scratch.
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