As June ends, the tension builds quietly for a few months of birth that you can feel something on the verge of turning. Whether it’s unspoken feelings, unresolved decisions, or emotions that have been pushed aside for too long, stress is beginning to show. What follows are times when things can no longer be ignored, and something inside finally withdraws.
Read on to see which birth months reach their peak, and when it might be time for them to finally face each other.
April
What everyone in the room is thinking but no one is going to say out loud cannot come out in a moment. The question on everyone’s mind is who will break first? Many look to you as someone who has the courage to break the ice, but you are also sensible enough to know that there will be consequences. The truth is that this has gone on for so long that there will be consequences regardless. How dirty you are willing to get your hands in order to get some much needed peace of mind is entirely up to you. Just make sure that your decisions are based on your preferences and not the external pressure you are facing. Don’t be the boss someone else decides to pop.
August
Will they or won’t they? Because if that question is directed at you and someone special instead of your favorite TV characters, but trust me, everyone is tired of waiting for an answer. It doesn’t take a genius to see the chemistry between the two of you, but for whatever reason, neither of you have had the courage to act on it. If you don’t speak up soon, someone is going to rip that belt from both of you, and it won’t be good. It’s better to start things with your reputation wisely, especially since public embarrassment can scare one of you forever. Your takeaways will make themselves known to you. This is one of those situations.
May
If someone doesn’t pour you a glass of wine now, and I mean right now, you’re about to go out in May. You’ll talk bad about that grumpy neighbor, applaud the client who never read their email, and tear through the next person who complains about something small in front of you. Because you haven’t talked about the big-ticket items that make your blood boil, someone else will get pushback. Think about the cycle of anger that you can perpetuate in the world if you don’t control your anger. You didn’t start this, sure, but you definitely don’t want to continue it. Be the change you want to see in the world.
November
You have to make a decision one way or the other in November. Are you staying or going? Are you talking, or are you silent? Are you following your dreams or fulfilling your mission? Everything in life feels like it’s ripping you limb from limb with the brutal tug of war, but not everything is so clear cut. There are ways to meet everyone in between. Doing a little of this, and a little of that. It’s called compromise, and it can help ease the crippling anxiety a big decision causes. You will come to your conclusion this month, and you should be proud of your ability to navigate and negotiate these challenges.