Believe it or not, many people like behavior that other people consider clingy. After all, texting twice and wanting to hang out every weekend is normal when you’re in a serious relationship, and it shows that your interest in this person is strong. However, there are still signs that they may be turned off by behaviors they consider too clingy. Here are a few birthdays that might come in handy if you give yourself a lot of attention right away:
December
People born in December are built for long-term relationships – but they don’t want to feel like their freedom is being taken away when they get into a relationship. They want to maintain their independence even if they are part of a couple. That’s why they may be scared if you want to spend every moment with them and never give them space, especially at the beginning of the relationship. December wants to know that their hopes and dreams will not be negatively affected in the relationship. They want to feel like they can still do everything they could when they were single. So if someone comes too hard, too fast, they may start to distance themselves.
May
Once they are in a serious relationship with you, those born in May will enjoy spending every moment around you. After all, they are very attached to the people they love. However, at the beginning of the relationship, attachment can scare them. They are used to a certain process, so going from no relationship to having someone who wants their attention every second can feel strange to them. They need some time to adjust. Time to get to know you. Time to get used to this new dynamic. Those born in May will be happy to spend all their days with you in the future, but they need to take things slow at first.
February
If you love someone born in February, you will want them to admit it. They value cruel people who are honest and straightforward. However, they don’t appreciate the strict procedures that make them feel trapped. If they don’t get a chance to go out and do their own thing, they will feel oppressed. February you need time alone. They need room to breathe. They will not stay in a relationship with someone who needs constant attention and reassurance that you still care. There needs to be a certain amount of trust – and space – for them to feel like they’re in the right relationship.
June
June natives are happiest when they are out and about, when they are making new friends and starting new experiences. That’s why they need a partner who accepts their new side. They need someone who enjoys spending a little time apart, so they have a chance to remember each other, and a chance to live their lives. If a person born in June finds the right person, they will be happy to do many things together, but they will still want time apart. They will still seek the opportunity to pursue their passions and interests. If someone tries to stop them from that, they won’t last long.