LIBRA
Libra feels like there is someone they didn’t get to, someone they left behind, something they gave up on. Instead of realizing that life requires us to make a series of choices, they themselves, require us not to make a bunch of other choices. There is no time, no way to do it all, see it all, learn it all, or be it all. Libra needs to justify themselves by always thinking they can, by always trying. If the desire is still there, if there is a true love project or a relationship or a job they still want to do, forgiveness comes in the form of placement. It’s not what they haven’t done, but what they haven’t gotten to. There’s still time to pick up the phone, sign up for a class, write the front page. But they will never be able to get there if they don’t free themselves from the guilt and shame they are currently carrying.
CANCER
Cancer is always worried that they haven’t done enough for others. That they weren’t there enough, that they didn’t provide enough support. Cancer is very afraid of what other people may face because of their inadequacy. They blame themselves when others suffer. But the truth is that Cancer cannot bear the burden of another person’s emotions or another person’s life. Cancer is a reliable and trustworthy friend, but that in itself is not enough to ensure that people in their life will not suffer, will not worry, will not get hurt. Cancers need to forgive themselves for negative consequences that were out of their control, and for all the ways that focusing too much on others has made them unable to fully take care of their own needs. Cancer needs to water its own lawn before trying to alleviate the stress in the desert.
SCORPIO
Scorpio feels remorse for all the heartaches in his life. The people they rejected, and the times they struggled with rejection. Scorpio feels that it is their fault for choosing or chasing the wrong people, for not getting it right on the first try, or the last try, or not at all. But the truth is that Scorpio followed and respected their feelings honestly. When someone isn’t right, they end the relationship. When someone didn’t reciprocate his feelings, he didn’t emphasize his sadness and disappointment. Negative emotions are not something we should apologize for, they are part of life. How a Scorpio reacts to those feelings is where their true responsibility lies. To lower people with kindness, do not let the jade of separation or sour in future love. Scorpio can only answer truthfully from their lived experience. They can’t say they’re in love if they haven’t met the love of their life.
PISCES
Pisces feel like they are in too much of their heads. Like they create a lot of problems for themselves by overthinking everything, by being too sensitive to the problems and conflicts within us and in our world. Sometimes the weight of it all is too much for Pisces. It feels like they’ll never find the answers to some of life’s most difficult and terrifying questions, but they need to forgive themselves for pressuring themselves to have false answers in the first place. They cannot be a rocket scientist, a nobel prize winner, a theologian of all religions, etc. etc. etc. everything at once. They will have to come to terms with their lack of understanding of human nature and learn to live in the gray. We will never have all the answers, but that doesn’t mean we should be shy or afraid of our own questions.