Let’s face it: no one likes to be singled out or forced to do something unpleasant, regardless of their birth month. But some star signs are more open to guidance and advice than others. Here are five birthdays who refuse orders and why they hate being told what to do.
April
As the first month of birth, those born in April tend to put themselves first in everything they do. They enjoy their freedom and are very independent. This month of birth is also notorious – they have quick minds and solve problems easily, and their aggressive behavior sometimes makes them bark at others.
Those born in April can’t stand feeling pressured or controlled. Like a child confined in a small space, he gets angry when he doesn’t have the freedom to do what he wants. They work best in jobs where they are in charge or have the autonomy to determine their schedule and prioritize tasks as they see fit. The more you tell someone born in April what to do, the more they will move away from you. Their anger can build up to the point of exploding – and no one wants to deal with this fire sign when they’re overheated.
November
Those born in November are fixed signs, and fixed signs are known for being stubborn and unyielding. If a person born in November has already made up his mind about something, there is no way to change it. You can tell them to do whatever you want, but if it conflicts with the opinion of this star sign, they won’t budge.
People born in November are not aggressive or outspoken in their unwillingness to be controlled. They prefer to travel stealthily, secretly making plans to get out of any unpleasant task assigned to them. They will slip through your fingers like water, evading orders by stealth. Those with November birthdays are also very persuasive and cunning, so they can easily get someone else to do the work for them. No matter how they handled the situation, you’d never know that November was secretly in charge this whole time. They don’t need you to know they’re refusing your request – they’d actually rather keep you in the dark.
December
December natives are symbolized by the archer, a half-horse and half-man creature, holding a bow with an arrow pointing toward the sky. Like wild horses, those born in December cannot and should not be contained. They value their freedom, and although they work well with others, they like to be independent.
Those born in December start to rebel when they feel restricted or confined. If you tell them what to do, it makes them feel frustrated and misunderstood. They are defiant, not because they want to be in charge, but because they feel really hurt by being ruled. It is best to give those born in December general guidance or options, then let them make their own decisions or complete the task without supervision. Many rules and detailed instructions will make a person born in December run away.
January
Those with January birthdays are ruled by Saturn, the planet of authority and structure. Because of Saturn’s influence, January is known as the “father of the year.” While those born in January appreciate the rules, they want to be the ones making them. They oppose orders that they don’t agree with or that don’t make sense to them.
People born in January are also ambitious – they want to be leaders, not takers. They will work at lower positions, as long as they know it will eventually get them to where they truly want to be – at the top. Happy people born in January have power and control. They won’t stay in a role where they have to take orders for too long; they are too far to count and are eager to climb the ladder.
February
February natives are ruled by Uranus, the planet of creativity and rebellion. Thanks to Uranus, those born in February value their freedom perhaps more than any other birth month. They are also stubborn and contradictory – if you try to tell someone born in February what to do, they will want to do the exact opposite. In fact, the best way to give this star sign advice is to use reverse psychology – suggest they do the exact thing you don’t want them to do or vice versa.
Those born in February have unique and distinct ways of working. They have good thoughts and are wise beyond their years. But sometimes, they think so far into the future that they forget what is right in front of them. They created advanced plans in their heads instead of doing the work they were left with.